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I'm not gonna lie to you Marge...What do we not tell patients and families?

Wednesday, April 04, 2018
Geri Lynn Baumblatt
Geri Lynn Baumblatt MA

It was Valentine’s day and I was at a party. The last few weeks things were good: my dad hadn’t been in and out of the hospital or ER. He was even doing well with his physical therapy and walking laps around the main floor of the house.
 
Around 9pm, my cell rang.
It was my mom calling to tell me dad broke his hip. She was with him in the ER now, but I shouldn’t worry or make the drive home right away. She was surprised when I became upset. She reminded me she’d  broken her hip a couple years earlier and recovered fine.
 
I explained that this same event for dad was different. His age and existing health issues this made it much more likely we could lose him in the next year and a half.
 
She said, “I’m so glad you told me. I had no idea.”
 
I could tell it changed the way my mom approached the situation: she worked hard to get him moving again and try to keep him out of the hospital. She was grateful to know there might be a real limit to the time we had left with him. I still wonder:
 
If I hadn’t told my mom about what a hip fracture meant for his life expectancy, would anyone have explained it?
 
Patients and families can engage better when they know the stakes.
Because clinicians and others on the healthcare team understand the meaning of a new event or diagnosis, it’s easy to forget patients and families often don’t. What does the trajectory or progression of their condition means for them? How many people with diabetes understand it’s not just chronic, but progressive?
 
Other times it’s easier to say nothing.
In my family, when someone won’t say what’s going on, we often quote a line from the Simpsons. Marge catches Homer inexplicably hauling a bunch of bowling balls and asks what’s going on, he replies:
 
“I’m not gonna lie to you Marge…”  and walks out, saying no more.
 
 
(From "Homer vs. the Eighteenth Amendment”, Season 8 of The Simpsons).
 
But people can’t connect dots they don’t know are there. I remember trying to figure out what to say when focus group participants with stage 3 kidney disease told us they weren’t getting worse and didn’t need to think about treatment options like transplant, dialysis, or medical management.
 
This wasn’t an outlier group.
Research done with people with advanced chronic kidney disease (CKD) found that for many, their first visit with a nephrologist was the first time they were told they had CKD. Or if they had been told, they didn’t understand it as serious news at the time — so they were often shocked by their diagnosis.1
 
The study also found nephrologists struggle to explain this complex illness and avoid talking about the future  Another study found factors like prognostic uncertainty, wanting to instill hope, and worries about emotional backlash impacted discussions about conservative management for older CKD patients.2
 
On the patient side, people want information so they can make plans and make informed treatment decisions. Related studies found many older CKD patients are never given a prognosis. Unfortunately, many elderly CKD patients then don’t engage in advance care planning.3
 
This happens across healthcare. It may be more challenging with conditions like CKD — since its a silent condition, people don’t have context for it and often don’t react to a CKD  diagnosis (in good and bad ways) the same way as they do to something like a cancer diagnosis.
 
How can we ensure people understand what events, diagnoses and prognosis mean for them or their family member so they can better engage in their care?
 
Look for Disconnects
Look for places where there are disconnects or “non-adherence.” Is there something people frequently don’t do or keep doing?  It’s often a sign we’re taking some key piece of knowledge or understanding for granted.
 
Repeat the Message
Especially if it’s a new diagnosis, emotionally people may not take it in the first time, even when it’s explained well with empathy. How do your hospital or office follow-up with people afterward to ensure their family caregiver understands? How do you ensure the message is repeated when people come back in for any follow up?
 
Peer Support
People who have gone through or are starting to deal with the same thing can also help  people understand the situation and learn to cope with it. Connecting people with others can help them wrap their brain around things.
 
How do you ensure candor and understanding? Share your best practices.


Catch up with Geri
 
April 9-10 at the Lown Conference in DC
 
April 17:
•   Catch her in a panel on family caregivers and care transitions with MaryAnne Sterling, Danny vanLeeuwen, and Amy Cain at the Beryl Conference in Chicago.
•   Also on April 17: join Geri, MaryAnne and Danny for the Chicago Participatory Medicine Reception in the Living Room at the Chicago Hyatt: 
https://www.eventbrite.com/e/chicago-participatory-medicine-reception-tickets-44352929807



1. Schell JO, Patel UD, Steinhauser KE, Ammarell N, Tulsky JA. Discussions of the Kidney Disease Trajectory by Elderly Patients and Nephrologists: A Qualitative Study. American journal of kidney diseases. 2012;59(4):495-503. doi:10.1053/j.ajkd.2011.11.023.
2. Ladin, K, Pandya, R., Kannam, A, Loke, R, Oskou, T, Perrone, RD, Meyer, KB, Weiner, DE, Wong, JB. Discussing Conservative Management With Older Patients With CKD: An Interview Study of Nephrologists. American journal of kidney diseases. Published online: 3 February, 2018, doi: 10.1053/j.ajkd.2017.11.011
3. Ladin, K., Buttafarro, K., Hahn, E. Koch-Weser, S. Weiner, DE. “End-of-Life Care? I’m not Going to Worry About That Yet.” Health Literacy Gaps and End-of-Life Planning Among Elderly Dialysis Patients. The Gerontologist, Volume 58, Issue 2, 19 March 2018, Pages 290–299, doi: 10.1093/geront/gnw267

Geri Lynn Baumblatt MA, For the last 20 years, Geri has worked to help people understand health conditions and procedures, orient them to their diagnoses, make more informed decisions about their care, and partner with their care teams.  She oversaw the creation of the Emmi program library, and she regularly speaks and serves on patient engagement, patient experience, health literacy, shared decision making, health design, family caregiving, and heath communication panels for organizations like AHRQ, the Brookings Institute, Stanford Medicine X, and the Center for Plain Language. She serves on the editorial board for the Journal of Patient Experience, is on the board of the Society for Participatory Medicine, and published a chapter in Transformative Healthcare Practice through Patient Engagement (IGI Global). She currently consults on patient engagement, family caregiving, and health communication. Follow her on Twitter @GeriLynn

 

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